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This is a very true statement. Panamanian men are cheating. I would think times before I date another Panamanian, mostly they are cute, hot looking men, and I like the features of Latin American men, but the cheating….
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I am considering buying a sailboat to live on and moor it on the Carribian side. I have heard that Colon is the Wild West of panama. Are there other options? Are there good roads between the coasts? I will most likely bring my Harley if I move there for transportation. Your thoughts and advice greatly appreciated. Sorry it has taken me so long to reply. I know a lot of people live in boats out in the bay beside Portobelo.
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That is why I think a therapist would be great for you. A therapist can help you work through your feelings. Once you get a handle on your emotions, you will start making better decisions. So, truly, the key is to work on yourself, and deal with how you feel.
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If you have gotten past the point of no return in your marriage, then your only choices are to stay married and miserable, or get divorced and maybe be miserable, or maybe start to actually be happy. You also asked how you would know if you could afford to be on your own. That is actually a little easier to figure out.
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